A Solo Mom's Adventure: Conferences, Airports, and a Surprising Win

Hey there, fellow moms!

Ever fantasized about a solo adventure, just you, your carry-on, and an itinerary created for one? Well, that dream became my reality recently, and I'm here to spill all the details. Buckle up as I take you on a whirlwind journey of solo travel, conference excitement, and an unexpected win. Trust me, this solo mom trip won’t disappoint!

The Thrill of Traveling Solo as a Mom

First things first, let's talk about the pure, unadulterated joy of traveling solo as a mom. No tiny humans asking for snacks every five minutes, no epic battles over screen time, just me and my suitcase. It's like a mini-vacation before the actual vacation! I found myself in Raleigh, NC, for the annual Family Life Coaching Association conference. As soon as I stepped into the airport, I felt that familiar buzz of excitement. Is it weird that airports give me life? The bustling energy, first glimpses of items such as souvenirs, regional foods, the sense of endless possibilities... it's like being part of a giant, constantly moving live show. I’ve happily sat at restaurants in the airport for the local cuisine and to people watch before my flight…yes, I know that seems rather odd.

Glass of champagne before my lunch at the Raleigh-Durham airport

Navigating the Airport: Surprisingly Smooth

You know what else was surprisingly thrilling? The ease of the airport. Yes, you heard that right. The Raleigh-Durham airport terminal I visited felt like one long rectangle. It had ramps for accessibility and although not a large airport, had moving walkways, water filling stations by the bathrooms, and even unique local shops and restaurants. Maybe it was the fact that I was sans kids, or perhaps that I grew up navigating the massive DFW airport. Either way, I sailed through the airport easily, and had plenty of time to indulge in some window shopping before my friend picked me up.

Dallas-Ft. Worth airport gate at sunrise

The Conference: A Whirlwind of Inspiration

Now, onto the main event: the Family Life Coaching Association conference. Picture this: a room filled with family life coaches from all over the world, each brimming with energy and passion. The speakers and attendees were all avid about enhancing families lives, and excited to both listen and interact. It was like being at a family reunion, but with people who actually understand what you do for a living! Meeting people from halfway around the world who are also doing the same work you are really inspires me. It proves that no matter where we live, helping support families is a global effort. The excitement was palpable, and I felt an immediate connection with many of the people I met.

People settling in for the first session of the conference

Speaking at the Conference: A Dream Come True

One of the highlights of my trip was speaking at the conference. Yes, you read that right – I was a speaker! Although I’ve spoken at an FLCA conference before, it was virtual, so not quite the same. It was both exhilarating and nerve-wracking, but the support from my fellow coaches was incredible. Standing in front of an audience of like-minded individuals, sharing my insights and experiences, was a moment I'll never forget. The session felt like it flew by, and I was left wishing we had more time to delve into the topics we all care so deeply about. Did I go over my time? Yep. Since the audience was still engaged, I wrapped it up as best as I could.

A quick snap of me before I began speaking

The Conference High: Too Short, But Oh So Sweet

Speaking of time, doesn't it always feel like the best things are over way too soon?! Science has proven time flies when you are having fun, and the conference was no exception. Just as we were all getting into the groove, getting to know other attendees, and diving into sessions, it was time to wrap things up. But isn't that the hallmark of a truly great event? Leaving you wanting more, already counting the days until the next one.

Winning the Raffle: ADHD is Awesome

And now, for the pièce de résistance – the raffle! You won't believe what I won: the book ADHD is Awesome by Penn and Kim Holderness. As a mom, with ADHD, juggling a million things, this book was exactly what I needed. It felt like the universe was giving me a high-five, saying, "You've got this!" Winning that book was the cherry on top of an already fantastic trip.

My tablespace with the book I won in the raffle - ADHD is Awesome

Airports: My Happy Place

Before I knew it, I was back at the airport, feeling that familiar mix of sadness and excitement. There's something about airports that always gets me – the energy, the buzz, the anticipation of new adventures. It's like the entire world is at your fingertips, just waiting for you to take the next step. Because if you had your passport, flexibility, and the spontaneity you need, then you could just hop on a plane for a last minute adventure…One day I’ll embrace that idea and hop on a plane for a last minute adventure.

Raleigh-Durham airport with the Wolfpack sign

Final Thoughts: Embracing the Solo Mom Adventure

So, to all my fellow moms out there dreaming of a solo adventure, I say go for it! Whether it's a conference, a weekend getaway, or just a day trip, take the plunge. Traveling solo as a mom is not only possible, but it's also incredibly rewarding. You'll come back refreshed, inspired, and ready to tackle whatever life throws your way.

Using the coaching model, here’s a few questions to ask yourself:

• How do I think traveling solo can benefit my personal growth and well-being?

• What unexpected wins have I experienced recently, and how did they impact me?

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Happy travels, moms! Until next time.

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